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The Monastic Ideal of Life and Death
AIM Bulletin no. 118, 2020
Summary
Editorial
Dom Jean-Pierre Longeat, OSB, President of the AIM
Lectio Divina
Eucharist and Service (John 13.1-15)
Humberto Rincón Fernández, OSB
Meditation
The Death of St Antony
St Athanasius
Testimonies
• The Cemetery of the Benedictine Monastery of Thiên Binh
Nathalie Raymond
• The Cemetery of the seven monks of Tibhirine
Monique Hébrard, journalist
• Koningsakker, the natural Cemetery of a monastic Community
Mother Pascale Fourmentin, OCSO
• The Manufacture of Coffins at New Melleray
Dom Jean-Pierre Longeat, OSB
Opening on the world
Lessons for life, drawn from Paul facing Sickness and Death
Professor Roger Gil, neurologist
Liturgy
Liturgy for the Dead: Traditions of Vietnam and monastic Rites
Sister Marie-Pierre Như Ý, OSB
Meditation
Giving up the Sleep of Death
Brother Irénée Jonnart, OSB
A glimpse of history
Anglicans and St Benedict
Fr Nicholas Stebbing, OSB
Monastic work and life
The Prayer of our Hands
Brother Bernard Guékam, OSB
Monks and nuns, witnesses for our times
• Dom Ambrose Southey
Dom Armand Veilleux, OCSO
• Mother Anna Maria Cànopi
Sister Maria Maddalena Magni, OSB
• Mother Teresita D’Silva
Mother Nirmala Narikunnel, OSB
News
• To Benefit All. In Praise of the Carta caritatis
Dom Mauro-Giuseppe Lepori, OCIST
• International Colloquium: The Carta caritatis
Éric Delaissé
• Introduction to the 12th Latino-American Monastic Assembly (EMLA)
Dom Enrique Contreras, OSB
• Journey to Argentina, October, 2019
Dom Jean-Pierre Longeat, OSB
Editorial
This issue of the AIM Bulletin reflects on the theme The Monastic Ideal of Life and Death. It dwells on the paschal mystery of Christ in general and in all kinds of customs which express it in daily life.
We shall consider two examples of monastic cemeteries and the manufacture of coffins at the Abbey of New Melleray (USA), and the funerary rites of monks and nuns in Vietnam. These are matters which provoke reflection at the spiritual and cultural and simply at the human level. A neurologist, director of a centre for ethics, makes a contribution in the form of a witness on the victory of life over the sufferings of dying.
The issue includes also various practical matters : the story of Anglican monks in England, a reflection on ‘Work and Economy’ by a monk of Keur Moussa (Senegal), the memory of great monastic figures, Dom Ambrose Southey, who did so much to form the Trappist Order, Mother Anna Maria Canopi, founder of the monastery on the island of San Giulio, and Mother Teresita D’Silva, founder of the monastery of Shanti Milayam. Finally this issue gathers up some recent news of our Benedictine family, among them a record of the ninth-centenary celebrations of the Carta Caritatis of the Cistercian Order.
Dom Jean-Pierre Longeat, OSB
President of AIM
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Life and Death in the Rule of Saint Benedict
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Dom Jean-Pierre Longeat, OSB
President of AIM
Life and Death in the Rule of Saint Benedict
In the Book of Deuteronomy Moses decisively announces to the People of God the exact moment when he himself will die without seeing the Promised Land: ‘Today I am offering you life or death. Choose life, then, so that you may live’ (Deuteronomy 30.19). Monastic life takes this instruction seriously. From the beginning of his Rule St Benedict repeats the Lord’s call:
‘The Lord is searching for his workman, and that is why he appeals to the crowd and says again, “Who is eager for life and longs to see prosperous days” (Psalm 33). If you listen to this call and answer, “Here I am, Lord”, God says to you, “Do you want true life, life with God for ever? Well then, seek peace and pursue it” (Prologue 14-16).
Similarly at the end of the Prologue,
‘Thus we shall never abandon God, our Master, and every day in the monstery until death we will continue to do what he teaches us. In this way we shall participate by patience in the sufferings of Christ and in this way we may be with him in his Kingdom’ (Prologue 50).
In Chapter 4 on the instruments of good works, St Benedict returns to this influence of death and life on monastic existence: ‘To have death daily before one’s eyes’ (RB 4). There is certainly nothing morbid in this; it simply underlines that life on this earth, important as it is, remains no more than a passing moment, and to shut oneself up in it does not give us the key to existence. It is at the same time a question of the orientation of desire towards true life and an alertness to the things of every day in words and deeds.
Concretely this translates itself into an attention to a listening obedience and to the free circulation of love among us. Thus in his chapter on humility St Benedict explains, ‘The third step of humility for a monk is to obey a superior totally out of the love of God. By so doing the monk imitates Christ. Indeed the Apostle Paul says of the Lord that he wished to obey even unto death’ (RB 7). Therefore this again brings in the paschal mystery. The fourth step of humility completes the third by showing how much it requires patience and perseverance. It is a matter of holding on till the end, without letting go or turning back, right up to the end, in order to taste true life.
This is especially true within the framework of the liturgy, in which the alternation of day and night renews in our lives the paschal mystery of Christ: at sunset Vespers where Christ dies on the cross; in the darkness of night Vigils and the combat which features at the heart of the psalms; at sunrise Lauds and the dawning of the Resurrection; and right through the day-hours, following the trajectory of the sun and the Passion of the Son of Man. The same is true of behaviour towards the sick. They remind us of human fragility and the advance towards the final crossing. St Benedict says that in the sick we recognise Christ, suffering and dying, while still maintaining thereby the constant witness to the life which is in God. Similarly St Benedict exhorts attention to the young, to guests, to pilgrims, to the poor, in whom we recognise Christ helpless and confronted by the fragility of our existence.
In order to show this link to Christ in his pachal mystery the Rule prescribes the washing of feet on certain occasions, for instance at the reception of guests, but also every week when the monks undertake service in the refectory and the kitchen, even though this rite is not practised today. This dimension of service shows participation in the death and resurrection of Christ. The rite of foot-washing finds its full sense in the link to the Eucharistic meal inaugurated on the eve of his Passion.
A monk deprives himself of all personal possessions. On the day of his profession he gives away all that he owns. He even gives himself, since it is said that, ‘from this day onward he has no authority even over his own body’ (RB 53). This is also the reason why at certain times the liturgy of profession was held to symbolize the spiritual death of the candidate by prostration under a pall. Even today the newly professed remains hooded for three or eight days before emerging and appearing as a witness to the resurrection, according to the model of baptismal liturgy. Memorable is the ‘encouragement’ which Trappist monks used to give each other when they made the sign of the cross, ‘Brother, we must die’, or those monks who used to dig their own tomb daily to stress the vanity of passing life. Such customs are no longer in vogue because the turning-point of life and the resurrection has regained its proper place. But monastic life must be careful to maintain the balance between the two dimensions of the paschal mystery.
At the end of his Rule St Benedict sums up monastic life in this way, ‘They should prefer nothing to Christ, and may he lead us together to eternal life’ (RB 72). In monastic life death and life are intelligible only in the light of the paschal mystery of Christ.

Eucharist and Service, the ministry of welcome in our monasteries
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Lectio divina
Humberto Rincón Fernández, OSB
Abbot of the monastery of the Epiphany, Guatapé (Colombia)
Eucharist and Service, the ministry of welcome in our monasteries
John 13, 1-15
‘He loved us till the end’ (John 13.1)
The account of the washing of the feet contains nothing about what we normally call the ‘Eucharist’, narrated in the gestures and words of Jesus over the bread and the wine. Nevertheless, in the Fourth Gospel, the Last Supper, that is, the Eucharist, consists of the washing of the feet.
I leave to specialists the task of working out what really happened at the Supper: was it a sacramental act over the bread and the wine or a prophetic act of washing feet in the way that slaves normally did? I have read that at the beginning of the life of the Church the two actions were linked, and that little by little, for practical reasons, the action over the bread and the wine took precedence.
The first verse of John 13 is very solemn and profound:
‘Before the festival of the Passover, Jesus, knowing that his hour had come to pass from this world to the Father, having loved those who were his in the world, he loved them to the end.’
We are at the festival of the Passover, and Jesus is preparing the celebration of the Passover. He knows that the hour has come for him to pass from this world to the Father, that is, the hour of his glorification, the hour of his definitive revelation, the complete revelation of the Father, showing his glory, his being, his essence. Throughout his life Jesus has shown his love for his own, but now, at this hour, he carries his love to the extreme, he carries it to the ultimate consequence, death, even death on the cross, a death like that of a crucified slave.
‘They were at supper... and Jesus got up from the table... taking a towel he wrapped it round his waist... then he poured water into a basin and began to wash the disciples’ feet and wipe them with the towel wrapped round his waist’ (John 13.2-5).
‘He got up from the table’, that is he gave up the place which was his, the place of honour. He had already said this elsewhere in the gospel. ‘Who is the greater, the one who sits at the table or the one who serves? Is it not the one who sits at the table? But I am among you as one who serves’ (Luke 22.27). ‘He removed his outer garment.’ St Paul in Philippians 2.6ff develops this: ‘Being in the from of God he did not count equality with God something to be grasped. But he emptied himself, taking the form of a slave, born in human likeness, and found in human shape; he humbled himself, becoming obedient unto death, death on a cross.’
‘He began to wash the feet of his disciples and to wipe them with the towel wrapped round his waist’. This means that he did the task reserved for slaves and servants of the house, or even for women in a patriarchal society, where men had the first place. In the logic of the hymn to the Philippians it is this humility which makes him the Lord, leads to his exaltation, to receiving the Name which is above all names, that is, to recognise that this man is Son of God, that God acts this way to men; it shows the quality of the love of God for his own.
‘Peter said to him, “You shall never wash my feet!” Jesus answered him, “If I do not wash you, you can have no part with me”. Simon Peter said to him, “Lord, not only my feet but my hands and head as well.”’ (13.8-9).
Out of respect for the Master, or perhaps out of misplaced humility, or from a deliberate calculation (if I allow myself to be washed he will surely require that I do the same!) Peter refuses this gesture of Jesus. It makes too strong an involvement. But in the face of this threat by Jesus, saying that, without this, Peter can have no part with him, that he would lose his friendship and his relationship of Master-and-disciple, he reacts and asks to be washed all over. This loving gesture of the Lord seems to touch him profoundly.
‘When he had finished washing their feet Jesus took his outer garment, sat down again at table and said to them, “Do you understand what I have done for you? You call me Master and Lord, and rightly, for so I am. From now on if I have washed your feet, I the Lord and Master, you too must wash one another’s feet. I have given you an example: what I have done for you, you also must do”’ (13.12-14).
A remarkable detail: Jesus puts on his outer garment without taking off the towel round his waist. Even when he is sitting at table he remains the servant, a slave. The fact of being Lord and Master does not prevent him remaining the servant. Then comes the instruction which corresponds to the account of the bread and wine, ‘Do this in memory of me’. The expression applies equally to the washing of the feet and to the meal itself, the Eucharist.
‘From now on, if I have washed your feet, I the Lord and Master, you also must wash one another’s feet. I have given you an example: what I have done for you, you also must do.’
To wash one another’s feet – that is the commandment. To make ourselves slaves and servants of our neighbour is the consequence of participating in the Supper of the Lord. To give up our lives as he gave up his – even to the end. The chapter continues with the announcement of the treachery of Judas and the denial of Peter. From the very beginning the possibility of those who participate in the Supper being able to betray and deny the Master is a real danger. For the Master it does not matter what may happen: he continues to invite us to his table, his table of love and detachment, whatever the consequences may be.
I would like to come back to the other gesture, which is more familiar to us, that of the bread and wine. Jesus makes a declaration over these two elements. He identifies with them, this bread is myself, who give myself for you. I make myself bread to be broken, shared, distributed. I am life abandoned, shared. The wine of this cup is my blood which is to be poured out to celebrate a new covenant. This wine is my blood, shed to give a new life. There is the same instruction as in our Chapter 13, ‘Do this in memory of me’. The repetition of this sacramental act at every Eucharist is as forceful as that of washing the feet. To eat the body of Christ and drink his blood enjoins us also to be for the sake of others a body abandoned totally, without reserve, to be blood shed to give our life, drop by drop, for others.
These two actions of Jesus are deeply related to monastic life. Participation at the Eucharist must be translated into the concrete life of each monk and each nun in the service of washing the feet. Speaking symbolically, not only in the welcome and service of guests, which is easy enough, but in the service of everyone and especially the brother or sister with whom we share the same ideal of life.
This link between the Eucharist and life which is required of us for welcoming others must be total, beginning in our monastery, in our community. There cannot be an authentic welcome for guests without a true and authentic fraternal life within the community. Whether we like it or not, guests notice this when they visit our monasteries. Often their only contact is with the porter, the guestmaster and perhaps a spiritual companion, but they leave messages in which they express their gratitude to the monks for the witnes of their lives, their attention, their fraternal communion, and more profoundly the relationship to the Lord which they have noticed in the celebrations and various expressions of care lavished upon them. But when they witness division, spitefulness, selfishness, incoherence of life they notice that also. They do not dare to express it in writing, but they speak of it and harbour a bitter memory, and this is a counter-witness.
When we speak of the Eucharist we speak of the community. The Eucharist is celebrated by a community. A single person, even a priest, cannot celebrate the Eucharist (in fact the General Instruction of the Roman Missal [no 252] requires that there should be at least a minister to assist the priest; it is only in exceptional circumstances and justifications that the Eucharist may be celebrated without a minister or one of the faithful [no 254]). The Ite missa est is a plural imperative, indicating that the mission which follows from participation in the Eucharist is no private mission. Following on from our theme, this means that the host who represents the monastic community is no lone sniper. This implies that one who enters upon this service acts in the name of the community and not on the margin, or worse, not in opposition to the community. Consequently it implies a duty on the part of the whole community: in what way are they present to the guestmaster or guestmistress, aware of what they are doing and ready to lend a helping hand? The service of guests is a mission given by the superior of the community, and exercised in communion with the community, by keeping them in touch with what is going on.
‘All guests who present themselves should be received as Christ himself, for he himself says, “I was a stranger and you welcomed me”’. This is a reference to Chapter 25 of the Gospel of Matthew. This shows that for St Benedict it is not only the sacrament of the Body and Blood of Christ which sends us on the mission of service and welcome to the monastery, but it is also the sacrament of a brother. This theme returns several times in the Rule: the brother not merely represents Christ but is Christ coming to visit us. That is why he deserves the greatest care.
I am sure that we have all experienced this in the monastery: guests are not a disturbance, a slight nuisance which we must tolerate in our monastic life. They are real witnesses of what we are doing, sometimes distractedly or as a matter of routine. They themselves witness to the strength of their faith, to their efforts to a coherence of life, of the way they struggle in their ordinary lives to stay faithful while leading a courageous life, struggling to earn their daily bread, run their household, be responsible in their work without making all kinds of excuses.
To conclude I would like to quote St Benedict once more. In Chapter 53 he gives some indications about the choice of a guestmaster. Like everything else in the monastery, this service occurs in the fear of God, that is, in the presence of God. In faith I know that my life is continually present to God. This is not to track my movements and note my falls in order to punish me, but to love me in his sight and his merciful love. I am loved by God, and my life radiates this love in my relationship with others.
In the Church we are living through difficult times with the problem of sexual abuse of minors. I do not wish to discuss this question here, for it is not part of my purpose, but I would like to build on what the Pope has developed in several of his pronouncements: sexual abuse is preceded by an abuse of power and an abuse of conscience.
The monk and the nun represent a very special reality in the eyes of the faithful and of the people who come to our monasteries. They regard us more or less as saints. This unconsciously creates in us an idea that we are superior, above others. This is what gives us power. From there we can easily slip into abuse of power. We can make use of others, namely of guests. To compensate for our emotional deprivations and to bind up caring friendships outside the monastery, to secure indelicately economic advantages for the monastery, to get presents or respect, or – what is worse – to divert for our own advantage presents given by guests to the monastery.
In all these cases, we can, blind to the abuse of conscience, easily find justifications for our conduct. I am the guestmaster or guestmistress, I must take care of the comfort of the guests… I must not be cold or dry towards them… I am doing nothing wrong… I do desrve some sort of reward… I work hard enough!
Let us remember what I said: our service of welcome is founded on the Eucharist. We welcome and serve those who come to the monastery because we want to offer them the humble service of Christ at the Last Supper, we want to offer them our lives as he did. We receive a guest and all visitors because it is the very person of Christ who is coming to meet us. We do all this with a pure heart, without any distorted motive, since it is Christ himself, our Lord, who has given his life for us by dying and rising again.
The Death of St Antony
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Meditation
‘He looked upon the angels who came to him as friends’
The Death of St Antony
Saint Athanasius
According to his custom Antony had gone to visit the monasteries of the mountain, deep in the desert. Alerted by Providence that his end was not far off, he said to the brothers, ‘This is the last visit I am making to you, and I will be very surprised if we meet again in this world. The time of my departure is near, and I am like a traveller in a strange town, ready to return to his own world. My departure is near, for I am almost a hundred and five years old’. When they heard these words his disciples burst into tears; they took the old man in their arms and covered him with kisses while he spoke to them. He spoke to them happily. He exhorted them never to relax their efforts, never to be discouraged in their exercises of piety, to live as though each day were their last.
His brothers wanted to force him to remain with them to conclude his sacrifice but he would not agree. He returned to the deserted mountain where he had fixed his dwelling, and little more than a month afterwards fell ill. He called the two brothers who looked after him in his old age and said to them, ‘I am going to follow the way of my fathers, as the scripture says, for I see that the Lord is calling me. So bury my body yourselves, hide it in the earth and be faithful to my instruction: no one but yourselves is to know the place where my body will be. On the day of the resurrection of the dead I shall receive it incorruptible from the hands of the Saviour. You are to divide my clothes in this way: you are to give to Bishop Athanasius one of my two sheepskins with the cloak on which I was lying: he gave it to me new, and it has grown old from the use I made of it. Give my other sheepskin to Bishop Serapion; as for you, you may keep my leather tunic. Good-bye, my children, Antony is going away and will no longr be with you’. When he had spoken these words the two disciples embraced him. Antony drew up his feet and looked at the angels who were coming to meet him as friends, and their presence filled him with joy. So he gave up his spirit and rejoined his fathers.
The two disciples faithfully observed his instructions: they buried him and dug him into the earth, and to this day no one knows where he is hidden except these two disciples. As for those who received the sheepskins and the worn-out cloak which he had bequeathed to them, they preserved these relics as infinitely precious, for in looking at them they thought they were still seeing Antony, and when they dreamt of him it seemed to them that he was joyfully giving them his lessons and counsels.
The Cemetery of the Benedictine Monastery of Thiên Binh, open to life
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Testimonies
Nathalie Raymond
The Cemetery of the Benedictine Monastery
of Thiên Binh, open to life
Original by the standards of the Benedictine tradition, though this was no accident, the cemetery of the monastery of Thiên Binh has progressively arrived at its present shape over the years in response to its spiritual function. Open to other religious congregations, both male and female, and also to lay Catholics, it has been at the heart of a community reflection on its spiritual function.
Missionary monasticism
The monastery was founded in 1970 by Father Thaddeus, who came from Thiên An, which in its turn had been founded by La Pierre-qui-Vire at the end of the 1930s. From the beginning the idea of a missionary monasticism was very prominent, especially in a difficult political situation, notably one of war. It was a matter of responding to the needs of populations displaced because of conflict, and also to give a formation to young people who had issued from modest circumstances by means of a technical school.
Today the economic and political situation is very different, but there still exists an uprooted and neglected population, migrants from the countryside who have come to seek a better standard of living in the megalopolis of Saigon. The monastery continues its efforts to respond to their urgent needs, not only in the matter of education but also in health-care. The monastery has a dispensary where the poor are treated by traditional medicine and drinking water is distributed free of charge, from a well which, thanks be to God, has never failed.
This care for physical well-being is, of course, partnered by care for spiritual health. The Benedictine monks welcome and accompany those who require it; they pray for them and celebrate Mass for their intentions. They are also full of gratitude to the benefactors who enable them to continue these activities. So without any damage to the Benedictine way of life the monastery takes a full part in dynamic interaction with the exterior and reciprocal enhancement of life. Nor are the dead excluded from this process.
Care for the Dead
Because of the relative youth of the monastery, so far few of the monks have died, only three: Dom Thaddeus, the founder on 31st January, 1995. Nevertheless the question of the spiritual function of the cemetery arose rapidly because of concrete facts brought to the notice of Dom Thaddeus. The first people to be buried in the cemetery were the members of a poor family, victims of the explosion of a bomb at the end of the 1970s. This could not leave Dom Thaddeus unmoved, for he was always very responsive to the needs of the poor. Then the Sisters of a Vietnamese Congregation (the Lovers of the Cross) asked permission to bury their dead sisters there. Since then several other congregations of religious have made the same request. Catholic lay people have received the same privilege. There is a very practical reason for the requests, the lack of space in the metropolis of Ho-Chi-Minh City. The pressure for space is so strong that it is impossible to enlarge or even maintain cemeteries. In addition this does not enter at all into the priorities of the Communist government. Cremation, very widespread in the country and the sole possible solution in view of lack of space, remains difficult for certain Catholics to imagine. Hence the search for cemeteries.
The joy of being able to rest in peace next to a place of prayer is an equally strong motive for fervent Catholics, not only religious. This gives the cemetery of Thiên Binh an exceptional character in the Benedictine world (granted that the cemetery is outside the enclosure): an inter-congregatonal cemetery for males and females and open also to the laity. These characteristics have obliged the community to gradually clarify the spiritual function of the cemetery. Such a reflection, over several years, conducted in the light of the Holy Spirit, has led to the realisation of a sort of prolongation of the multiple exchanges which the monastery has had with the world outside it. This is founded in the communion of saints celebrated in the Church and in the memory of ancestors which is dear to the Vietnamese heart. It is in fact very important in Vietnamese culture for the living to be aware of how much they owe to those who have gone before them, and to honour these predecessors.
The diversity of the ‘inhabitants’ of the cemetery also reflects the diversity of the Church, and it is good to imagine that the interchange between the monks and the outside world, begun in this life, continues beyond death. It is good to see here a prolongation of the missionary activity so beloved of the founder and his successors. Besides, who knows the debt which the monastery owes to these ancestors who have now entered into the light of God? In exchange for a few clumps of eaarth how many graces granted by the intercession of these saints for the pursuit of activities achieved by and for the living?

The Celebration of the cycle Life-Death-Life
In thanksgiving for this communion between living and dead a Mass is celebrated every year in the early morning of 2nd November in the cemetery when the Church commemorates its faithful departed. One this occasion religious and biological families of those buried in the cemetery come together with the monastic community to pay homage to their ancestors in prayer and the celebration of the Eucharist. Incense-smoke accompanies these prayers, and the incense-sticks continue to burn on each of the tombs after the celebration. It is a very important moment of recollection which makes the mystery of life and death in the same cycle palpable.
This cycle of life-death-life is materialised in another way in the cemetery. A visitor from outside would be surprised to see many plants growing there, flowers or decorative plants on the mounds of earth, but also bushes, small palm-trees, and in one section of the cemetery plants of curcumin, whose roots will later be used by the monks for medicine. This vegetation furthermore makes the cemetery a refuge for many birds. It is therefore a space which expresses the fact, which lies at the base of our faith, that life continues and is stronger than death.
In the course of events, then, (in which the hand of God is visible) this cemetery has acted as a sort of prolongation of the missionary emphasis and the monastic welcome which lies at the heart of the Benedictine monastic vocation. By its special and open adoption into the life both of the Church and of the cycle life-death-life the cemetery reflects also the communion of saints. Let us thank God for all the fruits which this special place holds in so many hearts.
The Cemetery of the seven monks of Tibhirine
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Testemonies
Monique Hébrard, journalist
The Cemetery of the seven monks of Tibhirine
The silhouete of the seven Trappist monks is engraved in the darkness of the night of 26/27th March, 1996. This final image of the magnificent film of Xavier Beauvois leaves us in uncertainty: were they hostages in some unknown location? Had they been assassinated? If so, where were their bodies? Everyone knows how difficult it is to mourn when the bodies of the victimes of an air crash or a crime have ot been recovered.
The darkness of uncertainty was lifted – into a terrifying clarity – only on 30th May when their bodies were found, and then only seven severed heads. The remains of the seven monks rest now in the cemetery of the monastery of Our Lady of the Atlas where they had lived. Thousands of people from every land come there to pray. Christians, but increasingly also young Muslims attempting to find some meaning.
I was deeply haunted by this place without ever having gone there, and so I leapt at the opportunity to go these on the occasion of the beatification on 8th December, 2018, of the nineteen martyrs of those ‘black years’ of the Algerian civil war which had cost thousands of lives.
Crossing the threshhold of the monastery one descends through the trees, passing the springs which provide water for the farming. Then one reaches a clearing decorated by lavender and rose-bushes, impeccably maintained by Youssef and Samir who are still in charge of the farm. Seven plaques with seven names, in the order of their entering the monastery, the first being Brother Luc, the doctor who so well incarnated universal fraternity by his care of any who presented themselves, the villagers but also the wounded of the GIA.
The gardeners are with us. Their care for this freshly-raked earth of which they are the custodians expressed their faithful love and respect for the spot, bathed in silence and surrounded by emotion, but also a profound peace and mystery. ‘Tibhirine’ means ‘garden’, garden of paradise, tilled with love, amid fruit-trees. A garden of olives, a place of suffering and death. As a prayer, groups often read the testament of Christian de Chergé, a penetrating message of brotherhood and communion, proclaiming that Life and Love are stronger than devastating hatred. It is not easy to emerge from the silence of this spiritual journey as one climbs up again to the ground above.
When we were at Tibhirine it was Advent. In the chapel, situated in the storage-house of the old winery, the crib had already been set up, and seven figures awaited the arrival of the Saviour.
Koningsakker, the natural Cemetery of a monastic Community
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Testemonies
Mother Pascale Fourmentin, OCSO
Abbess of Koningsoord, Arnhem (Netherlands)
Nature, between heaven and earth.
Koningsakker, the natural Cemetery
of a monastic Community
‘Konigsakker’ is the name of the natural and ecological cemetery linked to the Cistercian abbey of Koningsoord in the Netherlands. Clearly the name of the cemetery and that of the abbey begin with the same word, ‘Konig’, the Dutch for ‘king’. It is not so much the name itself which is important as the similarity, which expresses the link between the cemetery and the abbey.

But what is a natural cemetery? Why does a Cistercian abbey make a fuss about the use of such a cemetery? Is this compatible with monastic life? These are reasonable questions which spontaneously arise when one speaks of the kind of project. The purpose of this article is to offer some elements of an answer both by explaining the concept of a natural cemetery and by sketching the development of the project. This initiative, unprecedented in Europe, has raised many community reflections on the monastic, cultural and ecclesial issues of such a project.
1. Nature, the final resting-place on earth
We may have forgotten that nature is certainly the most natural place where human beings have always been buried. Of course the requirements of ritual, places, and symbols have rapidly led to the development of specific places where people have expressed themselves in one way or another according to their religion and culture. The current situation of inhabitants of overcrowded cities, whether religious or secular, the closure of many parish churches, the need for relations of the dead to renew their time-limited concessions, family displacements within or beyond the country of origin, and also of course the increasing prevalence of cremation, have all put a question-mark to our way of burying the dead. The appearance of a natural cemetery falls into line with these reflections. They began in England but were soon exported to the Netherlands, and the movement has undergone considerable expansion in the last ten years.
The principle of this kind of cemetery is simple, burial of a dead person in nature, returning the body to nature. There is no distinctive mark, no stone, no cross, no enclosure. The principle is that nature itself will take care of the tomb. Living nature continues to develop. This makes clear the close link between life and death, at least on the natural plane. To carry this link a little further, this concept of cemetery also aims to chime in with the the development and preservation of nature. In fact certain cemeteries have also the concrete purpose – and this is the case with Koningskker – of ‘creating’ nature. Koningsakker has transformed forty acres of maize-field into a natural reservation in harmony with the environment. This natural reservation plays its part in the development of flora and fauna of our region. In the Netherlands conservation is considered important, and land use is firmly linked to preservation of nature.
In concrete terms, someone wishing to be buried in our cemetery chooses a place, which is then recorded in the GPS system. It is therefore always possible to find the tomb, even in the middle of a field of heather. The person buys the right to be buried in this position for an undetermined time. It will remain there always and nothing will be done to the tomb. When all the tombs have been sold the nature reserve will endure. After burial the relations may choose to plant a wooden roundel with an engraving of the name of the dead person. This roundel, like everything buried with the person, is biodegradable.
Apart from the ecological aspect, the human aspect plays a large part in this project, including human accompaniment at every stage. Beside a constant welcoming staff at the cemetery, every stage from the choice of the position, through the burial itself to the visits of relations after the funeral is carefully accompanied by a competent and trained staff. The staff is there to listen, accompany and provide counselling. Care of nature and of persons is a constant feature in this type of project.
2. The Birth of a Cemetery

How did we come to embark on this project? It was the fruit of a slow community process. Two independent elements met to put us on this track. The first was concern to be sure of a zone of silence around the monastery. The community moved ten years ago because of the expansion of the town where the monastery was previously situated. We did not wish to live through again the same sort of scenario, which is not so simple in a country with such an intensity of population. The maize-fields attached to the monastery were a risk for our solitude. An opportunity to buy this land presented itself and we felt a call. At the same time our own monastic economy experienced a structural disequilibrium which needed to be solved. These were the basic ingredients. At first sight the idea of developing a cemetery seemed to us ridiculous. In any case, we did not know what we were talking about. Little by little we informed ourselves, we visited other places were such a project had been realised, and we exchanged ideas about the possibility. After the first reaction of rejection in the face of the idea of living next to a cemetery, other arguments began to arise: the encyclical Laudato Si’, ecology, a new relationship between death and ways of burying, the lay-out of our property, the instruction of St Benedict in Chapter 4 ‘to have death daily before our eyes’, the current attitude to the earth and our management of it. We needed to reflect also on our Catholic identity in the heart of a Protestant region. The cemetery is not a Catholic cemetery for, as for all our guest arrangements, we wanted to be open to everyone. We want to be quite clear about our Christian and Catholic identity. Anyone who wants to be buried here must respect this, just as our guests must respect our way of receiving guests. Despite the extremely secular surroundings in which we live, the people are aware of our witness in this project. For them too, as for their families, it is a way of making contact with the abbey.
Koningsakker opened its gate, one might say, on 1st September, 2019. As in the whole country, there is a real taste for this new kind of cemetery and the initiative from which it flows. For us this is a confirmation of our decision. Nevertheless, it remains for us to keep a close eye on the project, to listen to what is done there, to adapt the formula to requirements and to our objectives. The community has lived through a constructive experience during the development of this project. We live it as a witness to our faith in the resurrection at the heart of a contemporary ecological advance. We work in concert with the people in this line of business. The cemetery is run by layfolk, but we observe a discrete presence, and especially pray for the dead who are buried in our cemetery. Paradoxically enough, the development of this project, which was a load to bear, has refreshed our community and united us around an innovative and risky project, which has already begun to bear fruit.
The Manufacture of Coffins at New Melleray
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Testemonies
Dom Jean-Pierre Longeat, OSB
President of AIM
The Manufacture of Coffins at New Melleray
What charm,[1] but also what hard work in the lovely environment of the monastery of New Melleray near Dubuque in the State of Iowa (USA), with its three thousand acres of forest and farmland! Less numerous and more advanced in age than previously, the monks continue to enjoy this place at the same time as needing to seek something which can generate sufficient income for them without causing them to sink too much under the excessive weight of the work.
It is a generation since the Abbey of New Melleray counted one hundred and fifty monks living from the revenue produced by a mixed farming enterprise of milk-cows and pigs. In recent years the abbey has depended on the gifts of guests, pensions of senior monks and the sale of soya and maize, without the income always covering the annual expenditure.

New Melleray is not the only abbey which has had to face such economic demands. Of course the Benedictine monastic life considers work to be an essential part of its charism. But with the increasing accent on technology and internet, not to mention safety regulations and legal requirements, the conception of work has changed, and the monks have been compelled to adapt to this. The community of New Melleray has found a way of earning money which is compatible with monastic life. The monks voted to give up their enterprise of animal-farming, in part because it did not leave them enough time for contemplative life. There was a feeling of dissatisfaction among some who said they had not entered the monastery to work in a factory. The monks then envisaged creating a furniture factory, but a friend who was a businessman dissuaded them. At about the same time a neighbouring farmer who had discovered an interest in the sale of coffins asked them to construct this sort of product in the monastery workshops. This seemed to have some interest, and, after the community had deliberated the proposition, a partnership was set up. To the monks this seemed appropriate since for them, according to St Benedict, every hour should be accepted as the most decisive hour of all, that of passing to the Father.
A layman manages the construction of coffins for the Trappists and supervises the workers, while the monks begin work at 9.30, pause at midday for prayer and a meal, and then return two hours later, finally putting down their saws and hammers at 4.30 to go to Vespers. Another lay person is also employed as counsellor of the families for Trappist coffins. This is a very rich contact where the Holy Spirit can be seen to be at work among the Trappists, the clients and the employees, listening to the life histories and the final days in the heart of the families. In the monastery everything necessary and possible is done to console the families. Each coffin is constructed in a spirit of contemplative prayer. After sale each coffin is blessed to mark the beginning of the final journey.

Anyone who has asked for a Trappist coffin or urn is mentioned at the commemorative Mass of the abbey. The names of the dead are inscribed in a commemorative book, and a tree is planted in the monastic forest next to New Melleray, a living memorial of the dead. A letter is sent to the families informing them how they can support the ministry of the monks, and a card on the first anniversary of death. The monks of the abbey pray for the dead and their families. All are invited to participate in the commemorative Mass, to visit the workshop and to learn about the life and activity of the community. All the clients are invited to renew contact with the monks whenever they wish.
Each coffin is delivered with a cross personalised by an inscription of the name and dates of the dead person. This family remembrance is a way of honouring the dear departed each day. The massive wooden coffins come from nature and return to nature. This is a gesture of recognition of the gifts received from God. The workshop of New Melleray is not content merely to furnish a product, but sees this work as a participation in Christ’s own work of love and mercy.
[1] This article was written based on several sources of information.
Lessons for life, drawn from Paul facing Sickness and Death
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Opening on the World
Professor Roger Gil, neurologist
Director of A Space for Ethical Reflection (France)
Lessons for life,
drawn from Paul facing Sickness and Death
The vocation of the New England Journal of Medicine (NEJM) is to publish articles belonging to what may be called the scientific side of medicine; its objective is innovations in diagnostic both preventative and curative. But from time to time it happens that the periodical opens itself to the human and ethical realities of medicine. The most famous example of this is certainly the article of Henry Beecher published in 1966,[1] which provoked a crisis of conscience in western medicine by reporting a certain number of scientific works related to research on human beings which had not respected the dignity of the human person. In 2016 the NEJM gave it glowing homage[2] by showing that ethical reflection is not a curb on research but a condition of its human importance.
In August 2018 the NEJM published an article which also considered the human aspect of medicine, by telling a clinical story entitled ‘Life Lessons from Paul in the Face of Death’.[3] Paul was a rabbi who died three years after the diagnosis of a widespread cancer of the colon. He was 64 years old when stomach pain led to the discovery of an already widespread stage 4 cancer of the colon. He underwent a colostomy (articifial anus), followed by the most modern treatments, but died 34 months after the diagnosis. The author of the article, a doctor and in addition Paul’s own brother, outlined the three lessons which Paul had given his people during the additional months of life which medical treatment had given him.
Look back in order to learn to live for the future
Paul had never detected the cancer of the colon. He had no regrets about this, but was rather in agreement with the philosophy of Kierkegaard, according to which life must always look to the future, although it can be understood only on the basis of the past. He encouraged his wife and children to make this discovery. He knew that nothing could change what was happening to him, but he realised also that by telling his story he could allow others to escape the same destiny as himself. He helped others who were afraid of detecting a cancer of the colon to realise that the distress of the discovery was passing, but the reward was lasting.
Go on with your work
Paul, a rabbi, belonged to the conservative branch of Judaism, midway between the reformed and the orthodox: he held to openness and inclusion, respect for diversity and the faith of others. Despite his illness, and even in the face of heavy chemotherapy he continued to serve the community and to preside at religious ceremonies. Three months before his death he officiated at the funeral of a member of his community. Before his death he said that he hoped that the same would be done for him. And so it was.
Keep an aim in life
Because of his illness the marriage of his daughter was postponed, but forty-eight hours before the wedding he was taken to hospital because of internal bleeding. A few hours before the wedding he gathered his strength to be present. His close family helped him dress and be present in a wheelchair. He addressed his family and friends and said to them that this week-end belonged to the young married couple. In his disarming manner he spoke in a way which put everyone at their ease and injected humour into a situation which could have been experienced as sad. That night, when his family helped him to bed, it was clear that he had reached the end-point. And, wrote his brother, in the ten days which followed he was called to God.
His brother insisted that he had made the best possible use of the time of good health which medical skill had granted to him. Like him, his brother was grateful to the scientists, the doctors, the patients who had risked making clinical experiments and achieved this prolongation of life which he had achieved, thanks to new treatments. He lived for two more years, with an illness which twenty years previously would have led to a painful death in a few months. He used this time to teach how to live, and his family used the time to learn how to live.
The progress of medicine receives its full sense only as permitting people in the grip of illness to continue to give sense to their life. Only thus is it possible that medicine said to be ‘personalised’, but which is in fact highly exact, to the point exceeding any individual, can be allied to personal treatment. One of the purposes of bioethics is to promote this alliance.
[1] H. K. Beecher, « Ethics and Clinical Research », The New England Journal of Medicine 274, no 24 (16 juin 1966) : 1354‑60, https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJM196606162742405.
[2] David S. Jones, Christine Grady, et Susan E. Lederer, « “Ethics and Clinical Research” – The 50th Anniversary of Beecher’s Bombshell », New England Journal of Medicine 374, no 24 (16 juin 2016) : 2393-98, https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMms1603756.
[3] Jeffrey M. Drazen, « Life Lessons from Paul in the Face of Death », The New England Journal of Medicine 379, no 9 (30 août 2018) : 808‑9, https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMp1808695.
Liturgy for the Dead: Traditions of Vietnam and monastic Rites
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Liturgy
Sister Marie-Pierre Như Ý, OSB
Priory of Lôc-Nam (Vietnam)
Liturgy for the Dead:
Traditions of Vietnam and monastic Rites
From traditional burial to Christian burial: the lessons of history
The correspondence between funerary rites traditional in Vietnam and the tradition of the Church has a very long history. It is a matter not merely of the work of a few experts or the fruit of learned research, but rather of the whole people of God, which reflects the authentic sense of the faith within which it can mature. To estimate this we must run through the historical debates in China and Vietnam which have led to the decision to return to the cult of the ancestors.
In China and Vietnam, a historical approach
At the time of the ‘Rites Controversy’ in the sixteenth century, a time of lively controversy between the missionaries of different religious Orders, the question of the cult of the ancestors with regard to funerary rites was particularly thorny.[1] How much of the cult of the ancestors is ‘true and holy’ in the eyes of the Catholic Church?
In the face of this question, Pope Clement XI, by the Decree of 20th November, 1704, put an end to the Rites Controversy by forbidding Christians to make offerings in honour of their ancestors either in the temples or in their own houses, or to keep their funerary tablets. In the Constitution Ex Illa of 19th March, 1715, he renewed these prohibitions and ordered all missionaries to swear an oath to the apostolic authorities of their mission. Pope Clement XII, in his Bull Ex Quo Singulari of 11th July, 1742, upheld the decisions of his predecessor.
To regain the unity of teaching and action in the apostolate among the missionaries of the mission to China and its neighbours, the Legate, Mgr Messabarba, by the Instruction of Macao on 4th November, 1712, authorised Chinese and Vietnamese Christians to make offerings and gestures before the tablets of dead ancestors. The decree stipulates that these offerings and gestures may be made also in a cultic building, in front of the coffin or the tomb because they express respect and piety[2]. This ruling did not, however, calm the controversies within the Christian community. By contrast, Mgr Saraceni, Vicar Apostolic of Chan-si and Chen-si, outlawed the permissions about the tablets within his vicariate, while Mgr de la Purificatiton, Bishop of Pekin, accepted it. Next, under Popes Clement XII (1730-1740) and Benedict XIV (1740-1758), the question of the cult of ancestors with relation to funerary rites does not seem to have been definitively resolved. At this moment, to avoid all doubt, the Vietnamese Catholics abandoned the installation of an altar to the ancestors and their tablets in their houses. But they remained faithful to the pious memory of the dead by forming the custom of coming together and celebrating Masses for the repose of their souls. Towards the end of the seventeenth century[3] the Jesuit missionaries maintained that the cult of ancestors was a purely civil reverence, a witness to filial piety and gratitude towards ancestors and parents who had gone before. This view was shared also by Chinese literature[4].

Two centuries later the Congregation Propaganda Fide in its Instruction Plane compertum of 8th December, 1939, approved by Pope Pius XII, expressed the view,
‘It is lawful and fitting for Catholics to bow the head and make other civil marks of respect for the dead or before their images and the Tablets which bear their names’.[5]
Thanks to the Congregation Propaganda Fide the cult of ancestors in connection with funerary rites is now permitted: it consists exclusively of acts of veneration for the ancestors and dead parents. So this rite must be emptied of all superstition. The cult of ancestors is therefore permitted, but how should it be practised without any superstition?
The Debate over the Cult of Ancestors and the Opposition to it
At his arrival in Vietnam in 1628 Mgr Alexandre de Rhodes realised that certain funerary practices were superstitious and ridiculous, for example, the burning of votive papers. So he did not hesitate to condemn them. He forbade also the festival, the Cung Giô, which the Vietnamese were celebrating in memory of their dead parents. After observing what the Vietnamese were doing and what they believed he concluded that this ceremony rested on three errors: the first was that the soul of the dead persons returned into the houses of their children whenever they pleased or when their children called upon them; the second was that the dead fed upon the offerings prepared on the altar of the ancestors; the third, the most absurd, consisted in the belief that life and material prosperity depended on the dead parents, and could be blocked for ingratitude if they failed to celebrate the Cung Giô[6]. According to the Sino-Vietnamese tradition, however, lack of filial piety is considered a crime. Fr Lou Tseng Tsiang has most accurately described it in these terms:
‘Filial piety is the foundation of all moral perfection, the source of all fruitfulness, and none of our human actions escapes its laws. All people are bound to be inspired by it and to practise it in all respects.’[7].
The Re-establishment of the cult of the ancestors
Has the cult of ancestors a religious character? If it has, why is it unacceptable to the missionaries? Accepting the survival of the dead amid the living and the good grounds for the rites performed in their honour, Tran Van Chuong writes,
‘The cult of ancestors is aimed at recalling to the living the memory of the dead. It springs from the morality which prescribes fidelity to memory’[8].
Hô Dac Diêm expresses the same view,
‘This cult takes its origin in filial piety. A pious son must always have present in his memory the imperishable memory of his parents’.[9]
In the same vein Fr Cadière remarks,
‘Distinctions must be made: the ritual acts concerning the cult of ancestors do not in themselves have a religious character, but this is an exception. For the immense majority of Vietnamese the ancestors continue to be part of the family after their death’[10].
Finally, long discussion among missionaries reached this conclusion[11]:
‘The offering of funerary rites to the dead should be made in the fullness of love and a solid and perfect respect… Love and honour parents after their death.’
In 1675 the Instruction to the Seminary of the Missions Étrangères states in its second directive,
‘Do not expend any zeal or advance any argument to convince these people to change their rites or customs unless they are clearly contrary to religion and morality… Introduce to them not our countries or the usages of any particular people but the faith which does not reject or harm these rites’.[12]
In this way, as we have seen the Church requires us to take time, to have prudence and discernment. It was necessary to wait for Vatican II to have a full resolution of these questions.
A Proposal for the adaptation of the monastic funerary ritual to Vietnamese culture

For the great majority of Vietnamese the ancestors continue to be part of the family. For many the cult of ancestors is, in one sense, a religion of adoration of ancestors. For example, on the day of the commemoration of ancestors the tombs are decorated and all members of the family must come togther in the ancestral house to show their gratitude and strengthen the family bond by sharing a meal. At midnight before the New Year the most solemn celebration of the ancestors occurs, etc.
This is the reason why today’s Christians of Vietnam have no desire to be different from their fellow-citizens. Why? In days past the Christians were regarded by their fellow-citizens as people who had cut their roots, that is, they were suspected of abandoning the duty to pay cult to the ancestors after the funerary rites, and that condemnation persists to his day, even though the Church of Vietnam has made sure of retaining the traditional funerary rites.
How should the monastic ritual be adapted to the Vietnamese culture? What latitude do we have to harmonise the funerary rites to the Vietnamese culture, especially in Benedictine contemplative life in Vietnam? It seems to me that before any adaptation it is necessary to understand that:
The funerary ritual of the Church, particularly in monastic life, is not content merely to mount a funerary symbolism. It has also the function of a cult, that is, the celebration of the salvific plan of God, and it proclaims its faith in the kerygma: Christ died and he is now risen and, with him, all those who believe in his name.
The accent is placed on the dead person who is participating for the last time in the liturgical assembly, and for whom one is praying, and also on the living who need the consolation of hope.
The body is an integral part of the person. Deprived of life, it is not ranked as a mere object. It is the body of a particular person, a body which has shown love, tenderness, friendship, which has been marked by the sickness, by the whole history of this person. A body whose wounds are called to the transfiguration of the Resurrection. The body of the baptised dead person has become the Temple of the Spirit, touched by sacramental actions of the Church, nourished by the Eucharist. The way in which it is honoured at the funeral bespeaks the immense dignity of its vocation to eternity [13].
Next, the ritual is the expression of a theology. To begin with, this theology expresses the link which exists between the Passover of Christ and that of the dead person. This participation in the paschal mystery of Christ is linked in a significant way to the baptism by which we have been incorporated into Christ. The paschal character of death is marked also by the fact that it is a veritable transitus to eternal life, and is a communion of saints for the soul already purified and waiting in corpore (in the body) for the resurrection of the dead. In addition, the theology of the ritual recalls that the Church never ceases to believe that the communion of all its members in Christ ‘gains for each one a spiritual help by offering to the others the consolation of hope’. Finally, the ritual underlines the importance of honouring the bodies of the dead, since they have been the temples of the Holy Spirit.
Thus what we suggest is that we must avoid the danger of keeping in the expressions of popular piety towards the dead those unacceptable elements and aspects of the pagan cult of our ancestors, such as the invocation of the dead by means of practices of divination. Additionally, being Christans, we need to familiarise ourselves with the thought of death, and accept this reality in peace and serenity[14] since Christ died and is risen. However, this proposed adaptation certainly brings with it a difficulty with regard to the traditions long anchored in Vietnam.

[1] Exterior actions such as bows, prostrations and offerings are practically the same in the cult of the ancestors and in the Christian rites of burial. But do they have the same meaning?
[2] See the thesis of Antoin DUONG QUYNH, Un aperçu historique de la controverse en Chine, ISL, Paris, 2001, pp. 96-106.
[3] See WIEGER, Histoire des Croyances religieuses en Chine, 1re leçon – CADIERE, Croyances et pratiques religieuses des Vietnamiens, pp. 266-273 – HOUANG, Âme chinoise et Christianisme, Ch. 1 – TRAN VAN HIEN MINH, La conception confucéenne de l’homme, Saïgon, 1962, p. 57.
[4] The study of Chinese philosophy and of the ancient books on which these rites were based leads to the understanding that the sacrifices offered to the ancestors express only the homage of gratitude and a profound respect which excludes any religious dimension.
[5] Cf. Sacred Congregation for the Faith, ‘Instructio circa quasdam caeremonias et juramentum super Ritibus Sinensibus’, in AAS, 32, 1940, pp. 24-26.
[6] Cf. Alexandre de RHODES, Histoire du royaume du Tonkin, Paris,1999, pp. 70-77.
[7] Dom P.C.LOU TSENG TSIANG, La rencontre des humanités et la découverte de l’Évangile, p. 51.
[8] TRAN VAN CHUONG, Essai sur l’esprit du Droit sino-vietnamien, p. 17.
[9] HÔ DAC DIÊM, La puissance paternelle dans le droit vietnamien, Paris, 1928, p. 30.
[10] P. CADIERE, Ibid., p. 41.
[11] Quoted in the edition of pieces presented by the Jesuits to the Congregation to answer the ‘Questions about China and its neighbour’ in the archives of the Missions Étrangères.
[12] G. GOYAU, Les prêtres des Missions Étrangères, Éditions Ouvrières, Paris, 1956, p. 24.
[13] Pierre JOUNEL, La célébration des Sacrements, Desclée, Paris 1983, p. 905.
[14] The Vietnamese have the custom of crying out loudly before the body of the dead, and this funerary rite is sometimes ambiguous about the presence or absence of the dead person.
Giving up the Sleep of Death
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Meditation
Brother Irénée Jonnart,
abbey of Chevetogne (Belgium)
